Helping

Can someone please tell me why do I fail at helping other people? Every time I try, they tell me to shut up. When someone feel bad and ask for my help, I will try to help them to face his/her problem alone. And every single time I make them so angry that they want me to leave. What should I do? We are alone in this world; either we face our problems alone or we have to beg others for the rest of our life. There isn't any choice! We are destined to be alone. But it is hard when I can't help the people I care about. What should I tell them? Lies; I'm sorry to hear that; are these enough? It's not enough for me!!!!

Good bye!...